Hi...
I know, u'll smile when I start to type something on you. Yes, I have problem. I wanna say it to someone, but I don't know who can understand, who want to listen.
Sorry if I just share the bad news to you, but I know that you will understand and you will listen to me.
Today I feel so bad. Again.
I've heard someone say something about me. Something that makes me realize and ask to myself, is that true? am I like that?
I have told someone about the truth. The truth is the badness of someone else. I told her about that and I don't hope anything from that. I don't hope she will tell someone else and else about that. Finally, a problem appears from the story. But I guess it's not because of me, I just told the truth. I don't know if what I've said is something that they call 'provoke'. I've never meant like that.
I told about the truth and I was not alone. I and my friend talked about it. But why? When the problem comes, I become the bad one. He said that I started it. It was my opinion. Hey, I've never talked about someone else if he didn't start it and asked me first. But why he talk something different now? I become the bad one. It's so annoying. I don't regret with the thing I've said because it's the truth, it's something bad and it should be stopped. But why the one who were so excited to talk about it, now he becomes the one who is so regret it and blame others. And why they said that I was provocateur? Am I like that?
Sometimes I cannot understand about others thought. If the truth is something that has to buried, I will shut my mouth and let all the truth hidden.
Welll...all people have a tendency to Blame 'the others' if they involve in troubles. I guess it's a nature of human kind. So 'watch' them carefully it's the best way...don't trust anyone 100% and tell the story to the right people. Even you start talking about right story It will be a wrong story if it's just a story between work partners, acquaintance, or other. It'll appear as 'a gossip' and lead uncomfortable between people. Besides, I think the best way is tell the wrong person directly that they are wrong...so they can stop what they have done. Of course this is easy to say than do it...but it can considered anyway....also the authority must be considered as well...so keep calm friend...see n think clearly what you have to do for solving the problem...so you don't make the problem even bigger.ok hope it can help.bighugs from me
BalasHapusI think that's not fair.. Why they blame me, although they knew it's the truth.
BalasHapusAbsolutely, I can trust no one here. :(
But thanks for ur advice say.. It makes me realize that all of problems must be solved carefully :) #bighug